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Here we are asked, well, we're told gordon allport believed that healthy, well -adjusted individuals did what? so the man here is gordon allport, and he made these conclusions about healthy, well -adjusted individuals.
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And i'll just cut straight to the chase, which is that they have a positive but objective sense of self and others.
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They have a sense of humor, common sense, and a unifying philosophy of life.
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And that's going to be a, or our first option.
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But i want to talk about why, and that is that he talked about being nested, right? that your sense of self and others, your self and others, was something that was negotiated, right? right.
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That your sense of self comes from the acknowledgement that you get from other people who reinforce, they reinforce your identity.
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For instance, right, like let's just say that, like, for instance, i have two brothers and one sister.
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So i not only knew that i was my brother, the others around me treated me as such.
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And so because of that, i was secure...