Q1: Think of a time when you have had part of your identity challenged. How did you respond?
Q2: Can you recall a time when your perceptions did not match the whole story? What happened in that situation?
Q3: How do you think others perceive you in these situations?
Q4: How self-aware are you during heated situations? How often do you check in with yourself during these situations to see if you are being realistic and fair?