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Ladies and gentlemen, we're going to take a look here at kubler -ross's five stages of theory of death and dying.
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Kubler -ross put these together as someone who had observed this as a, she was taking care of the dying, and she saw a pattern, she saw similarities in what was going on in her client.
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So let's take a look here and see what she came up with.
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After her observation, she came up with a five -stage theory of death and dying, and that doesn't necessarily mean that we go from one stage to the next.
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So her theory doesn't say you go from denial to anger, from anger to bargaining, from bargaining to depression and from depression to acceptance.
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These are each very unique and left to their own existence.
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So you might go right to anger.
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Then you'll go back to denial.
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And then maybe you'll begin bargaining and become depressed, but you'll go back to being angry and to the denial.
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And then eventually you might end up with acceptance.
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So it's not like this is a linear process as much it is.
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Different phases of coming to terms with the fact that you have to die.
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Now, this is all part of developmental psychology, and it really relates to the last stage all of us have to deal with, which is how do we come to terms with the fact that we are dying.
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So what are some of the things we experience or feel in each of these stages? well, if we look at the denial stage, one of the first things we start to feel are avoidance.
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We want to ignore the fact that we've been told we're going to die.
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We might be confused, right? i felt healthy all this time.
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How is it all of a sudden that i'm feeling that way? we might have this sense of elation, believe it or not.
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People sometimes feel elated almost as if they've been released of some burden.
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And then, of course, there is shock and fear.
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So all these emotions are part of the denial stage.
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Now, the second stage is anger.
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And when we feel anger, we get frustrated, of course.
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We have irritation.
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And sometimes we're very anxious.
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The third stage has to do with bargaining.
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And this is where we struggle to find meaning in what's happening to us...