Generally speaking, for a given metal and ligand, the stability of a coordination compound is greater for the metal in the $3+$ rather than in the $2+$ oxidation state. Furthermore, for a given ligand the complexes of the bivalent metal ions of the first transition series tend to increase in stability in the order $\mathrm{Mn}(\mathrm{II})<\mathrm{Fe}(\mathrm{II})<\mathrm{Co}(\mathrm{II})<$ Ni(II) < Cu(II). Explain how these two observations are consistent with one another and also consistent with a crystal-field picture of coordination compounds.