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Jiddu krishnamurti, a renowed philosopher, a spiritual teacher, often explores challenges that a mental construct and idealized image can pose in various aspects of life including relationships.
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So in chapter 7 of his book, freedom from the count, freedom from the known, freedom from the known, krishnamurti delves into the idea of ideal image of a person and impact relationship.
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So, the main contention is when to create an idealized image of another person.
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So here, this idealized image is constructed from our desires, expectations and past experiences.
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It can create several problems in relationship, several problems in relationships.
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What this problem? lack of authentic connection.
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So when we supremose and idealize image onto someone, we are not connecting with the real person but with our mental construct.
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This lack of genuine connection can hinder the development of deep and meaningful relationship because it is not based on the understanding of person's true image or true nature.
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Second, disappointment and frustration.
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So as the real person, inevitably falls short for idealized image, we become disappointed and frustrated.
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We might become disillusioned when they don't meet our expectations, leading to conflicts and misunderstanding...